Lesson 2: Cross-Cultural Team Formation and Delegation (Discussion Guide)

Opening (5 mins):

  • Icebreaker question: What experiences have you had working on mixed teams? What cultures were on the team?
  • Question: What was hard, and what was good, about the cultural differences on those teams?

Youth With A Mission Value #10: We function in teams in all aspects of ministry and leadership.

“Two are better than one…If one falls down, the other can help…” Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

Building Teams That Stick Together (20 mins):

  • Talk about why we need united “tribes” that work together across cultures to do our mission around the world
    • We get more done when we put different backgrounds, views and strengths together
    • We show the world what biblical unity in diversity looks like
  • Question: How can we build welcoming, close multicultural teams on purpose?
    • Ideas: cultural awareness training, icebreakers, team charters, agreeing on team values and ground rules, etc.
    • Be patient, be open about your weaknesses, and stay a learner
  • Look at key team qualities like trust, belonging and welcoming different views
    • Let team members share how these qualities are seen in their cultures
    • Talk about how the team can build these qualities together

Youth With A Mission Value #13: We are dedicated to being relationship-oriented.

“Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” Ephesians 4:3

Delegating Across Cultures (20 mins):

  • Why we hand out roles and responsibilities fairly, with cultural awareness
    • Different cultures may see authority, rank, accountability and so on very differently
    • Know the privileges or blind spots your own culture might give you
  • Question: What different cultural views on leadership roles do we need to think about?
    • Let team members share how their cultures see it
  • How to delegate fairly, based only on a person’s gifts, strengths, experience and calling, not their cultural background
    • Talk about delegation as a group so any bias comes out
    • Have a clear way to look back at delegation decisions

Youth With A Mission Value #11: We exhibit servant leadership, honoring gifts in all.

“There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them.” 1 Corinthians 12:4

Break (5 mins)

Talking Openly (20 mins):

  • What makes talking across cultures hard, and how to get past it
    • People talk differently (direct or indirect, a lot of words or few, comfortable with silence or not, etc.)
    • Cultures have different rules about disagreeing, giving feedback, saving face, etc.
    • Let people share examples of how communication works in their cultures
  • Question: How can we make it safe for every voice and view to be heard on our teams?
    • Set team rules like “one person speaks at a time,” “suspend judgment,” etc.
  • Talk about good habits for cross-cultural communication, like:
    • Really listening: repeat back what you heard to make sure you got it
    • Checking in often to make sure people understood
    • Talking through problems and disagreements with curiosity, not judgment
    • Learning phrases in each other’s languages to understand each other better

Youth With A Mission Value #18: We communicate with integrity – truthfully and relevantly.

“Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become…the whole Body.” Ephesians 4:15

Closing (10 mins):

  • Question: Why does our mission need close, welcoming multicultural teams?
    • We work together better, get better ideas, and reach all peoples more strongly
    • We show the world cultures being reconciled
  • Question: What’s one practical step you can take to be a good cross-cultural teammate?
  • Go over the main points: build united teams, delegate fairly, talk openly

Youth With A Mission Value #4: We practice intercessory prayer to overcome divisions.

“I pray…that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you.” John 17:20-21

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